To me, personality and the individual matter more than sex or sex roles. Attraction is a mix of different things that don't necessarily remain constant...these however are crucial: sanity, empathy, authenticity, affection; being unprovincial and engaging.

INEVITABLY, an encounter or a meeting involves some screening, but please - no performance test, no interview/interrogation;I much prefer a relaxed chat/rap.

I am mostly interested in good company, caresses, cuddles, kissing..nothing heavy.

When deserving, I gladly serve at the temple of aesthetes, sages, wits and literary types.

reading, travelling, swimming...music.